Deal with the world the way it is, not the way you wish it was.
Don't focus on trying to be 'the best'. Focus on being irreplaceable.
If you do not respect your own wishes, no one else will. You will simply attract people who disrespect you as much as you do.
If you are in crisis of who you are and your self-image, then everything is going to be distorted because of one crisis that hasn’t been resolved.
Pastor A.R Bernard