I am enough because i said so.
If one wanted to depict the whole thing graphically, every episode, with its climax, would require a three-dimensional, or, rather, no model: every experience is unrepeatable. What makes lovemaking and reading resemble each other most is that within both of them times and spaces open, different from measurable time and space.
Most of our issues stem from perception, which stems from childhood experiences that affect us to this day. Please nurture your kids.
Don't focus on trying to be 'the best'. Focus on being irreplaceable.