The easier it becomes to be someone you're not, the harder it becomes to just be yourself.
Three routes to healing:
1. You must let the pain visit.
2. You must allow it to teach you.
3. You must not allow it overstay.
The most powerful way of being able to listen to your own intuition is by being silent. Find a quiet space, slow down and calm your mind. Your goal is to eliminate all that noise going through your head – all those thoughts that appear from nowhere.