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Are Relationships Defining Your Life

Are Relationships Defining Your Life?


Why do relationships define our lives?

We all know that it can be the case… Are we single? Are we dating? Are we looked at as a couple? Are we looked at as married?

All of these things are amazing and can be viewed as great or terrible depending on the state of your relationship. The problem happens when we let ourselves become defined by our relationships instead of individually defining our own lives. When you put so much into your relationship that it becomes more important than your relationship with your internal spiritual self is when there is an issue.

This is a year of dramatic psychological transition for many, so the safety net this year will be revoked in many ways. It’s up to us to become what we want as individuals and uphold our promise to our soul development before most otherworldly responsibilities. If we do not honor our internal conscious voice and spiritual guidance, relationships will usually fall apart anyways…

So if you find yourself more interested in working on a relationship than you are working on your own spiritual self, then you will usually run into problems. Counseling-type situations happen when people stop spiritually developing independently and instead start projecting their neuroses onto one another in the form of cheating, lying, acting out, not honoring promises, and lacking accountability. The spiritual directed person always tries to do what they say and say what they mean. This, of course, seems simple, but in a twisted world, trying to do these simple things can become complex. Even if a relationship is just totally useless, the spiritual directed person will know the right time to gracefully exit, instead of waiting for it to get to a fever pitch.

The key is knowing yourself, if you don’t know yourself, then knowing another is not all that possible. They are usually just reflections of you in some way anyhow, hence it’s like looking outside of yourself to find yourself in essence… It all comes down to becoming the person you would want to be in a relationship with, then you can usually find that out in the real world!

Hope you guys are doing well out there and enjoying this crazy year!




Austin is an experienced Astrologer, Numerologist, and a veteran Tarot Card Reader. ( (And more recently a veteran Cajun Relief Member... He has also studied the occult sciences for the past six years. Austin’s spiritual quest began at the age of 19 when his father died. This tremendous loss filled him with grief and led him down a negative land self-destructive life path. After immersing himself in the way of Psychology, Philosophy and Spirituality he discovered Meditation and the Hermetic Arts and was guided out of the darkness that had befallen him. It was precisely at this time that Austin learned a valuable life lesson about how he could help himself. He realized that the only way to make life a rich, rewarding adventure was to help others. Astrology, Tarot, and Numerology offered him a new avenue that enriched his quest of making a positive difference in other people’s lives. This holistic approach gave him a thirst for self improvement and led him to become a Tai Chi and Chi Gong practitioner; and instilled in him a deep love for nature. All his life experiences and accomplishments gave him a personal philosophy: in order to make life rewarding he needed to do his part to make the world a better place and in order to make the world a better place he needed to help others because helping others was really all about healing himself. This personable, caring, authentic behavior is what separates him from other practitioners in the field. Book a session with Austin and experience an immediate, positive shift in your life. Be prepared to ask the deeper questions about where you truly want your life to go. Astrology, tarot, and numerology allowed Austin a new avenue of expression and a way to make a positive difference in others’ lives. He is also a Tai Chi and Qi Gong practitioner, in addition to having a deep love for nature. His personable, caring, authentic manner is what separates him from other practitioners in his fields. Book a session with Austin and experience an immediate shift in your life. Be prepared to ask the deeper questions about where you truly want your life to go.

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