Note to self? When trials and tribulations hit, don't fret. It's either a storm of correction or a storm of perfection.
There has never been another you. With no effort on your part you were born to be something very special and set apart. What you are going to do in appreciation of that gift is a decision only you can make.
Learn to appreciate your positives. It is far too easy for us to get carried away with perceived faults in our character.