Race is an illegitimate concept which our ‘selves’ have created based on fear and ignorance.
Be yourself, unapologetically. No one has the right to ask you to be anyone else or to act any other way. Do what makes you feel comfortable, safe, and happy.
If you are in crisis of who you are and your self-image, then everything is going to be distorted because of one crisis that hasn’t been resolved.
Pastor A.R Bernard